PERSPECTIVE: Afraid of big mirrors?

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Perspective

What would you think if you found out your friend is afraid of big mirrors?

Have you ever met someone who doesn’t have a full-length mirror in their room? Would you feel curious enough to ask why? Most people, especially women, tend to have mirrors in their bedrooms. After all, it’s hard to do makeup or get dressed without one. Some women even enjoy having large mirrors to help them get ready or to decorate their space. Honestly, I need a mirror for my makeup too, but I personally don’t like having a big mirror in my room.

It might sound a little strange, but I’ve come to realize that I have another phobia: I’m actually afraid of big mirrors. This fear is known as eisoptrophobia. Even though I’m not afraid of all mirrors in general, my fear of large mirrors falls under this category. It’s a rare phobia, and not many people talk about it. I’m totally fine using a small mirror. I prefer one that I can move around or even hide when I’m not using it. But having a big mirror permanently in my room? No, thank you.

The reason is that my eyes are easily drawn to a big mirror, and my imagination starts playing tricks on me. Sometimes I imagine scary things coming from the reflection, like ghosts or figures watching me. I know it might sound like something out of a horror movie, but that’s how my mind works. Oddly enough, I’m not afraid of using big mirrors outside of my room. I enjoy getting ready in front of one at a friend’s place or in a public space, as long as it’s not in my personal space.

So in my daily routine, I stick to a small mirror for makeup. Once I’m done, I’ll put it away so it’s out of sight. I only use a mirror when I really need it, and if it’s not available, I can always use my phone camera as a backup. That’s my way of managing the fear without letting it stop me from doing the things I enjoy.

From my perspective, it’s totally okay to be different. We all have our own comfort zones and boundaries. Sure, it might seem odd that I’m a woman who doesn’t like dolls or big mirrors, but this is just who I am. These phobias are real for me, and even though they don’t interfere with my life too much, I’ve had to learn how to adapt and protect my space.

Sometimes people make jokes about it or don’t take it seriously, but I try not to let that get to me. I always remind myself that everyone has something they’re afraid of or uncomfortable with, it just shows we’re human. I do my best to stay positive about it, and I think it’s important to normalize talking about fears without judgment.

So, do you have any phobias or unique experiences like this? If so, you’re not alone. That’s my perspective.

Warm regards :b