PERSPECTIVE: Lives by strong principles?

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Perspective

What comes to your mind when you have a friend, especially a woman, who lives by strong principles?

Do you admire her for it? Or do you think it’s just normal? In some environments, people might take it for granted. But personally, I believe living with clear principles deserves respect. Maybe we all know someone who holds on tightly to their values, even if we don’t always see it. After all, I believe every person, man or woman, has their own set of life principles. These principles are like personal guidelines that help us stay aligned with what matters most to us.

From my perspective, life principles are essential. They give direction and meaning to our lives, whether in relationships, careers, or personal development. Of course, everyone is different. Women and men may hold different principles depending on their values, upbringing, or cultural roles. And while it’s true that some people prefer to just “go with the flow,” I believe having no principles at all can lead to confusion or even harm, especially when we’re influenced by negative people or environments.

That doesn’t mean everyone needs to be super strict or rigid. But I do think that knowing your purpose in life makes it easier to define your principles. In my view, when people lack clear values or direction, they become more vulnerable to outside pressure. They may struggle to make decisions on their own, or let others control their choices. Life is ultimately in our hands. What we choose shapes our future, and strong principles help guide those choices in a healthier, wiser direction.

As for me, I consider myself someone who lives with intention. I try to make thoughtful decisions based on my own values, not just what others expect of me. I’m not ashamed to speak up about who I am or what I believe in. I hold on to my principles as a way to stay grounded and focused on my goals. They help me filter the noise around me and stay true to myself, even when things get difficult.

One area where this really shows is in relationships. I’m very careful and intentional about the connections I build, especially in romantic relationships. I’ve always been selective, and that’s why the few ex-boyfriends I’ve had were genuinely meaningful to me. I’m open and honest in relationships, but I still set boundaries. I’m often surprised by how easily some people can jump into one relationship after another, but at the end of the day, that’s their path, not mine. What matters most is that I’m comfortable with how I live.

I’ve learned that being a principled person doesn’t mean you’re closed-minded or rigid. You can still enjoy life, have freedom, and make your own choices, you just do it with a sense of purpose and clarity. Even if you’re someone who tends to follow others, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have your own personal “filter.” We all deserve to live life in a way that reflects who we truly are.

So, that’s my perspective. I believe living by your principles brings strength, confidence, and independence. It helps you make better choices, stay true to yourself, and move forward with purpose. What about you? what are some life principles that guide your journey?

Warm regards :b