PERSPECTIVE: Dad has a PhD?

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Perspective

Dad has a PhD? How it shapes your life!

How’s your family doing? I hope they are doing well in life. As we get older, we will take the chance to become parents too, right? Of course, we will. Nothing is permanent in this life. In this article, I would like to give you all spoilers about my dad. Honestly, it’s not cool at all, but maybe it can help you gain new perspectives about having a dad with a high education degree.

I’m not trying to be cool or show off, but this is my life. Honestly, I don’t really have a close relationship with my dad, but we communicate very well. No matter what, I respect him very much in my life. He paid for my education even though he didn’t know that I got a scholarship, thank you, Dad. If you also don’t have a good relationship with your father, it’s okay, but you have to respect him in your life. I believe that every father absolutely sacrifices something for his kids. Not all fathers are perfect, but you can make them perfect by appreciating their hard work for you and your family. My father is not perfect either, haha. I’ve done everything by myself until now. I’m more into my mom than my dad, but I learn a lot from my dad. He is a very hard-working person and has high dedication to his work.

My father is typically a soft person and very religious, but since my parents divorced, I don’t want to talk a lot with him. My mom still admires my dad’s faith. I salute my dad because no matter how angry I was at him, when I need his help, he will give me his hand. But I rarely ask for his help, I’m a very independent person. I can do everything by myself. I am a strong person, even with or without my dad behind me. By the way, I might be like my dad, very serious when it comes to work and education. Recently, I just found out that my dad finished his Ph.D. Something in my mind was like, “WHAT? Is he serious about it?” I didn’t know that during this time, he was still pursuing an education degree, haha. But I’m proud of him, he is doing great in life!

He is about 60 years old and has retired from military service. Maybe he also believes in this #YOLO (You Only Live Once) at his age. As his daughter, I want to achieve a higher degree just like him. I want him to be proud of me too. His hardworking and independent daughter can achieve more than he did in the future. Dear future husband, please don’t be insecure about my humble dream and my dad. No matter how high my degree or position is, you will lead our family. I wish all the best for my future husband. Again, I’m not looking for a perfect husband like my dad, a figure with a nice career and education. I want to find someone who can complete my life, at least someone who has the same vibe and good chemistry. Of course, my dad will have the same wishes as I do. So, are you the right one for me out there? Will you be ready to meet my dad? Hmm... we can make a nice briefing an hour before the meeting. So, here is my perspective.

Warm regards :b