PERSPECTIVE: What’s your hidden personality archetype?
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How’s your life going? I hope everything is going well. In this article, I’d like to talk about a fun and reflective topic: What type of person am I? Some people go out of their way to avoid confrontation, while others seem to attract it. In my opinion, both extremes can be problematic. That’s why I try to avoid falling into either category and prefer to remain somewhere in the middle, balanced and moderate in how I deal with conflict.
Some people believe that confrontation should be avoided at all costs. These individuals often stay silent even when something truly unfair happens to them. For example, they might remain quiet when being pushed around or blamed for something they didn’t do. Unfortunately, people who behave this way may be taken advantage of, simply because they don’t stand up for themselves. As a result, they often don’t get what they deserve in life, as others may continuously exploit their passivity.
On the other hand, there are people who go to the opposite extreme, they get into confrontations far too easily. When something small or accidental happens, they blow it out of proportion as though they’ve been deeply wronged. For instance, someone might accidentally bump into them or say something unintentionally offensive, and they’ll turn it into a huge issue. While others may try to avoid provoking this kind of person, they may also choose to avoid them altogether. That’s why people who are quick to confront often struggle to form close and lasting relationships.
Personally, I try my best to avoid both extremes. I aim to react in a calm and balanced way. If someone offends me unintentionally, I try to let it go and move on as if nothing happened. However, if someone clearly goes out of their way to upset me, I respond, calmly but firmly, to let them know that such behavior is unacceptable. In doing so, I avoid wasting energy on trivial matters while also setting boundaries to prevent further issues.
So, that’s my perspective. I believe that staying balanced in how we handle confrontation can help us live with more peace and integrity, while also earning the respect of others.
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